Will I be witty? Will I be pretty?

I think the worst question to ask is What would you be like if you'd only done/not done ___...

You never have an answer, you never will, and yet it's impossible to say "Well, there's no answer to that," and turn away. You can tell others that, but not yourself. It just doesn't work.

What would I be like if I had joined cheerleading with Michelle years ago?

What would I be like if I knew what I knew now?

What would I be like if I'd learned how not to hold grudges?

I don't know the answers to any of these questions, and so many more. And it kind of saddens me. *sigh*